第39名

“考试考第几名呀？”

一名幼稚园老师问一个刚刚升上小学一年级的小女孩。

“39”小女孩稚气地答道。

“吓！才39而已！”

“怎么可以让孩子考这么样的成绩？一年级的成绩，仅仅几个是不够的！至少也要90分以上！”幼教老师对着小女孩的家长“教训”道。

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这样的情景是否很熟悉呢？

我相信任何一个人，都曾经历过这么样的一个阶段！只是，成绩真的那么重要吗？

你可以否决我的意见，但是，请再否决之前，仔细的像清楚，今天，如果每一个都考90分以上，怎样也都分胜负的对吧！整数打和的话，就看小数点两位数。不够？三位数。还是分不出，那就来个四、五、六位数吧！

到了这样的情况，总会有人的第一名，有人的最后一名的吧！如果，我那么不幸是最后一名，请问该怨谁？

一个刚升上一年级的小学生，还未来得及适应环境，就得埋首苦读。成绩出来，比上不足，比下有余，那就该满足了呀！何苦为了那一点点的分数而责怪孩子不够用功，不够努力？

现在的老师及家长，往往会犯上一个错误，即孩子的成绩考得好，脸上的光就沾得多一些！

而事实是，书是读给自己的，不是家人或老师！

正因为现在这样的教育体系，所栽培出来的“未来栋梁”，都无法为自己作出重要的决定。

什么决定？

要到哪间大学？要念什么科系？哪一个最赚钱？念着科是我爸一直以来的梦想，所以我一定要年这科。我妈想我读这科，最热门也！

这种种的问题，已经出现在最近这几界的中学毕业生身上！

我们都是傀儡呀！都是父母的傀儡，老师们的傀儡！

为什么大家就不能自我反省，退一步，擦亮眼睛，看清楚现在的社会，看清楚孩子的需求！而不是一味地在灌输孩子歪曲的思想。不要把自己达不成的愿望，全盘心意放在孩子身上！

孩子也是人，他们也有选择的权利！

39名罢了，有什么大不了！

我曾经还考过班上倒数最后几名，现在还不是好好地在念大学，过着自己享受的生活。

第1名不代表一切！切记：小时了了，大未必佳！

p/s:当是我听了这老师的“教训”以后，真的有股冲动想要“教训”这自以为是的老师！！！真是气煞！她还用那种带着鄙视的语气告诉家长，奉劝家长不该对孩子于学业上过度放松。真是的，这是哪门子的道理啊！！！

Musical Baton

Baton received from Hoong Tze~~

Total volume of music files on my computer: 4.67 GB

The last CD I bought: I din buy CDs, I copy fr fren's pc.. ;p

Song playing right now: As Long As You Love Me (BSB)

Five Ten songs I listen to a lot, or that mean a lot to me:

Greatest Love Of All - Whitney Houston
Dou Jiang You Tiao - JJ
Tong Hua - Guang Liang
Wish - S.E.N.S
Graduation (friends forever) - Vitamin C

Five people to whom I’m passing the baton:

Tnee
Poh Hean
Siew Chan
Jade
Chien Hui

Busy days...

Quite busy for these few days...I have my midterm on Tuesday, and having the Sports Carnival Registration Booth at Lobby from Tuesday to Thursday...

I dunno how's my midterm for OB, perhaps I can just pass with 50/100...;p

For the Sports Carnival, the respond from the students are quite low, not much of them really wanna take part on this 6 sports, which are basketball, badminton, street soccer, table tennis, foosball and British Pool.

I'm the Generation Y, and they are all same generation with me, but why...!!?? Their mind and attitude are totally out of my expectation?

They are very close to Millennials, they likes to play online game, pc game...they would prefer sitting in front of the pc then going out for any sports!

They drive/walk/take bus/take taxi to uni just for class, they back home right after that. They won't stay longer in the uni for no reason.

Is that the circumstances which is happen in every colleges and uni? I wonder...

爱情...

爱情，并不是你付出得越多，就会得回应有的收获！

分享Erica的文章

请花一点的时间，阅读这一篇有意义的文章- 女朋友的故事。

堕胎，不仅仅是道德伦理问题，更是女性身、心、灵上的伤害。

e时代，任何事情都讲求速战速决，这当中，包括了神圣的性！为什么说是神圣？当你决定和你的伴侣进行性行为时，男的选择不带套，因为麻烦。女的选择不吃药，因为副作用。

而结果是，精子竭力地游向卵子，将头钻进卵子，好比男生将那话儿“钻进”温柔乡里，那种畅快，只有当事人了解！

射出的精子，只有1个成功和卵子结合。就算只有百万分之一的机会，精子依然会秉持着锲而不舍的精神努力向前游。然而，精子的主人呢？他又是否能够秉持着这种精神，负起全权的责任？

钱，并不能解决所有的问题。至少，钱无法充当心理医生，为病人开解！

堕胎所致的5种罪：

精神压力

损害健康

失去自我

感情创伤

事业受挫

不知道“凶手”看了以后，是否能够反省反省，多多体贴你身边的爱侣？

还是不明所以！？

那就更应该了解堕胎所带来的后遗症！很可能是一辈子的不孕、细菌感染、骨盘发炎等等...

再来，介绍另一个网站,如果能够更深入了解关于堕胎引来的种种并发症，你应该知道，为什么提倡安全性行为了！

Welcome Safety Sex
But when you are trying to take off her bra, please remember to take out your condom from your wallet, USED IT!

When you are trying to zip down his jeans, please remember to tell him, "I will feel more satisfy when you USED IT..."

也许翻译的不是很正确，但大意都是在提醒我们，安全性行为的重要性！

不要害怕向男生提出要求，因为，女生也有自主权，女生也是人！！！

Stress..

It's the first time I be the chairperson for such a big event in UCSI. I really don't know whether I'm capable, but I took that position, is to let myself to have a chance, to know where my ability can extend to.

I'm trying hard to make the committees to work together, but all of them seems have a lot of stuffs to busy with, and they don't really have time for this event. I know they starting to have assignments and test.

Is that my problems? I'm not able to handle this event, I can't lead the whole team...Is it my problems?

My solution??
Be a good chairperson...to help the committees who are really busy or those who really and can't get any man-power to help him/her. (since the students here are too cold, cool, quite, diam, passive)

Concern more to every committees...

Encourage them in this period...

We are a TEAM...We make the event happen, We make it run smooth, We can do it!!!

年龄●距离

很常听到一句话：“年龄不是问题，高矮不是距离”。

男生女生之间，比较介怀的就是年龄问题，总是认为，姐弟恋不正常。虽然已经是21世纪，毕竟，华人社会里的思想还是蛮传统。所以，世俗的眼光，往往不看好姐弟恋。仿佛，只有兄妹恋才是正常的，才是明智的选择。

曾经试过探讨这问题，女生的答案不是担心男生太孩子气，就是怕男生太小，还未定性及定心。男生给女生的安全感成了一个重要的话题。


除了年龄，就是高矮的问题！

男生比女生矮的情侣似乎不常见到。但我身边就有这么一对，还跑了5年的爱情长跑！女生除了不能穿高跟鞋之外，其他都相处得很好。对男生而言，这并不是什么有损尊严的问题，但就是有人会介意。

我，还是蛮介意年龄的问题...

一个比我小三岁的男生，等了我三年。他知道希望不大，但依然在等。一个人等到的感觉，其实很寂寞。我，就是没法子说服我自己。

他，是一个很好的男生，很努力上进，很卖力地工作...可就是，只能是朋友。只能说，过不到年龄的关卡。

我是否应该谢谢父母给了我一张不像实际年龄的脸庞呢？这张脸，已经无数次让我刚认识的朋友误会我今年只有18、9岁。

我突然发现到，好像都是女生比较介意哦，会么？男生们，你们会介意的吗？

爱...

有没有试过很爱很爱一个人？
有没有试过被人抛弃的滋味？

曾经
她很爱他
为了他
宁愿抛下家人朋友
也不愿回家

可是
他也爱她
为了她
宁愿假装很忙
也不愿见她

她和你
本就是很要好的一对
却因为他的出现
而乱了方寸

他对她说
“我和你是因为时差，而没能在对的时间碰上。”

她哭着
走了...

你和他
到最后都是失败者

没能勇敢地承认
也无法去面对
自己的感情

可惜
可悲

UCSI Clubs' Day

A group photo of all of the committee with me, the ex-president of Wushu Club...

*applause* Let me introduce the president of Student Council, a huge guy from Sabah...Dominic..陆宇忠 (If I'm not mistaken...) He's from Chinese School..but I totally didn't realize it for 3 sems...cos he keep speaking English to me, I really thought he couldn't speak and understand Mandarin and Cantonese.

HOWEVER...he can!!He can actually speak very fluent Mandarin!!! Do not judge a book by it's cover..now I understand why...

What a shame is that, I was standing on a chair and from this photo, I just have the same height with him..he is "damn" tall lah!!!


This sem, the committee work very hard for this clubs' day, they done a very good job and the backdrop is just sweet and nice..honestly, this sem have more student drop by the lobby for the clubs' day compare with last sem. Besides that, with the performance, had actually attracted more student to come over and ask about the clubs' info..which is a good sign for UCSI...

I do really hope the students here don't just stay at hostel or stay at home for doing nothing...or just lepak lepak..If they can spend some of the spare time for activities, sacrifice to the club, the Uni will be more lively and more fun...I really enjoy these 2 days...the whole block A full of crowd, and I can feel the life of Uni, that's really fun..


They are new cabinet members of student council, Eric, Noah and Kenneth...today...they are
-->>MEN IN BLUE!!!

They are all my junior...and they make me feel that I'm getting older...am I too old for study?? hmm....

无题

夜深 人静
心烦 意乱
我飘在这寂寞城
寻找着寂寞人

飘到他的露台前
才发现
他 并不寂寞

我
带着受伤的心
随风飘去