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快乐哲学...习惯就好...开心就好...

Thursday, 30 March 2006

Parliament Trip

I was late this morning...until I heard my handphone sms tone, I was shock and the sun already rose up...it was 7.45am...I suppose to reach uni before 8am...

It's an important day because me and my classmates who doing the Media Law and Ethics, are going to parliament!!!

I was in a rush in the early morning...I had to get myself prepared in 10minutes...

This is the 2nd time I been to the parliament...this time is meaningful because at least I know some of the issue that they are dicussing, and I have some improvement for me hearing...hearing on BM and Eng...compare with last time I went was in 2002...


It is a windy morning, and as usual, on the way to parliament, we have to passby those heavy traffic jam area such as Jalan Sungai Besi, Jalan Istana and Jalan Duta...we reached there at 9am, and we had a light breakfast in their so called "canteen"...

After waiting for the person in charge to explain about the parliament things, which we can actually learn fr class..but I dunno why the student fr one of the local famous university --> U#M, they keep asking lots of questions...

Anyway, this is not important...

After we all sit in the parliament, the hundreds over seats, most of them are empty..meaning that there's a lot of MP didn't come for the meeting...

Oh ya...share with you a SECRET!!! for these meetings, the MP come and they get back allowances...and it's RM 200 per day!!! Imagine they going to have the meeting in the whole month, from Mon to Thurs, there's 18 days of meeting for this month, they can get RM 3,600.00 as allowance!!! These are the money from the RAKYAT~~~

AND...

if the MP just sit in for 5 minutes, they still get pay...

In the meeting, I saw one of the MP who was sleeping, the head keep nodding, seems like agree with the points of Minister of Women and Welfare, Puan Sharizat speech...

Some of them who playing with their HPs...ya..it's HPs...he has 2 HPs...and I guess he was playing his infared thingy or bluetooth thingy...

Some of the MP really didn't pay attention to what their discussing about...dreaming in the Dewan...just attend and get the allowance, perhaps they not...

There's one topic they discussed about, is the PERBAHASAN...The MP keep encourage is to promote BM and Speak good BM...guess what...even they themselve, couldn't speak proper BM in the parliament...how are they going to promote this things?

Furthurmore, you can see the MPs keep going in and out from the Dewan...they are not respectful enough to the Yang Di-Pertua...

Some of the MPs talking crap in the meeting...and even not answering the question that asked by others MP...

This meeting, they brought up a lot of issues, but seems never come to conclusion...and the chairman is just come for duty, every hour change another person...I doubt whether they really know how's the meeting goes..and what's the topic they discussing...

Anyway, this trip is fun and nice...we have seen lots of things, but the most pity thing was we couldn't wait until Lim Kit Siang voice out his opinion...we have to leave at 12sth...

Today is the last day for the parliament meetings...and tomorrow they are going to talk about the 9th plan of Malaysia, which we are not allow to sit in...only for those who are invited...

After the trip...only one thing comes to my mind...be the MP and you will get good pay...just for your attandence of the meeting...you never need to talk...you can just have a nap...if feel boring, you can go out to the canteen there have a cup of coffee, then only come back...or you can just attend for the first hours, then leave...

Consider it...you might get good PAY wor...

HAHAHAHHA~~~

Sunday, 26 March 2006

it’s the ‘TAGGED’ time again

Four Movies I would watch over and over again
1) Wushu Video Clips...
2) The Sound of Music
3) ??
4) ??
Aparently I have no time for movie now...

Four Places I’ve lived
1) An old Flat next to the Siam Temple
2) Cheras Maluri, 5 minutes walk to Jusco
3) Kajang, New Era college hostel and off campus hostel
4) Taman Taynton

Four Places I’ve been on vacation
1) Thailand, Hatyai
2) Singapore
3) Hong Kong
4) Penang, Malacca, Seremban

Four Nicknames I’ve been given
1) Tong Yun
2) Ching Tong
3) Leng Tong
4) ?? it's only that 3 I can remember...

Four Things I could NOT lived without
1) Food
2) Water
3) My Doggie
4) My Honey =_="

Four of my Favourite Food
1) Wan Tan Mee
2) Half Boil Egg
3) Seremban Lou Shu Fun (it's totally different with others)
4)

Four Places I would rather be right now
1) China
2) Australia
3) Malacca (to meet my Honey... :p)
4) Greece (a place that I wish to go since I started my athlete life...)

Five things I can do (totally agreed with Mighty Lizard... ^_^)
1) I can walk
2) I can see
3) I can smell
4) I can talk and taste
5) I can hear too!!

Four friends that I’ve tagged that I think will respond
1) TNee Cha
2) Winnie Chua
3) Poh Hean #if she can have a break from her programming
4) Jasmine #it's your time to have sth English in your blog...haha~~

珍惜

他在戏院里
而我
正为他没告诉我看戏的事儿
而懊恼着
两个人之间
是否应该将所有事
都向对方禀告

我真的非常珍惜
珍惜我们的感情
珍惜能够在一起
一起相处的日子

今早
随着我的老师
到云顶拍摄他的电影
在他给他的演员指导时
他说了这么样的一件事

有位女教师
在授课当儿
接到她医生的一通电话

就在电话上
医生竟然通过电话
告诉老师说
说她患上癌症!

那一刻
老师马上就哭了起来
她还有半堂课
却无法控制情绪
继续授课

人生
就是这样
五味参杂
谁也不能肯定
谁也不会知道
下一秒会发生的事

而我老师的这部电影
也在叙述一个瞎眼女孩
为了在自己癌症病发前
赶着将自己的作品
尽快拍摄完毕

就在女孩的电影
上映的那一天
他的摄影师
百般无奈

在他和女孩相处的那一段日子
他竟然没有发现到
她“赶”的理由
她走了
她就连自己的电影上映
都没办法出席
因为
她永远都不能出席了

他爱上了她
是她
改变了他
然而
命运弄人
有情人无法终成眷属
这是
一生的遗憾

我不想要这种遗憾
我不想要任何遗憾
所以我学会了珍惜
珍惜我俩之间的每一刻

20060128

Saturday, 25 March 2006

忙碌●困境

接近学期末了
我们都忙着自己的功课
还有可恶的考试

越是接近毕业
越是让我担心
我的未来出路

我可曾后悔
选择了武术
而放弃了体育系?

如今
我告诉自己
我要回到母校
选择我最爱的工作

可是
就差那么一张纸
我能否胜任?

我的困境
我的未来
我该如何选择?

Saturday, 18 March 2006

宠而不坏

你的家人宠你吗?
你的爱人宠你吗?
你的朋友宠你吗?
你的兄弟姐妹宠你吗?
你的师长宠你吗?

我们都会被人宠
我们都会被人爱
懂得爱自己
别人才会加倍爱我们

有没有看过
被人宠坏的小孩?
被人宠坏的情人?
被人宠坏的千金?
被人宠坏的少爷?

我常不自觉地认为
被宠坏的
都是可怜人
一旦有一天
宠他们的人不在了
这些人
该如何继续活下去?

当你正宠着一个人
同时也要让她明白
有一天
你也会离她而去
学习宠而不坏
学习在适当的时候放手
不是每一件事
都必须保护着她
过分的保护
只会让她退化
让她遗忘了独立生活

当我听到你
处处在维护着她
不让她碰这
也不让她碰那
最后
她会忘了如何照顾自己

学习宠而不坏...

Monday, 13 March 2006

当分手成了气候

打从去年开始,就发现到,原来分手时有季节的。

去年的某一点时间,我陆陆续续收到和我一同在新院念书的学弟及学妹,在国外的分手消息。有的在台湾、中国、澳洲、英国、纽西兰等地。本想屈指一算,却点算不完啊!

这陆陆续续的消息,也影响了在马拉西亚念书的我们。

分手的朋友,无不心疼
聆听的朋友,无不心寒

今年,才不过是三月份的开端,夏天都还未到来,坏消息就接踵而来了。

所谓的坏消息,除了近日来莫名其妙的天灾以外,就是这分手的气候。又是一次的屈指一算,天呀!

分手,其实都一样,就只不过是他或她不再爱你了、有或者他或她对你没有感觉了、有或者他或她爱上了其他人了。

当一方提出分手之际,听听他的解释,他给的理由...仔细分析,不难发现这些所谓的解释,都是一些狗屁不通的话而已。他们不过是要用漂亮的文字、语言来掩饰真心话。由谁敢大胆承认他们得分手真正原因?很少,甚至没有...有第三者的,若不是被人发现,我想当事人一定还沉醉在谎言里。

“我和你在一起很辛苦”
“我年纪不小了,还要成家立室。你还小,还有很多选择。”
“我不是在批评你什么,但是希望你能够将你的形象搞好,因为我有一些女性朋友也是......”
“我觉得你不是很会穿衣服...”
“我带你出来,不代表你就是我的女朋友...”
“我很忙,你的生日,我不能帮你庆祝了...”
“我刚刚忘了开电话铃声,因此没有听到你的电话...”
“我没有这么多闲情来回你的短讯...”
“我今晚上要和朋友看球赛...”

很多时候,当一个男生不再注意你了,他们都会开始制造许许多多创意的谎言来掩饰他已经不再喜欢你。他们不会马上和你分手,也许还没有找到更好的,所谓的骑牛找马就是这样子。

有的更甚,谎言都不说了,直接人间蒸发。

有的会“情不自禁”地拿你和其他女生作比较。尤其是比较外在美!一个男生若会介意你的外表,那么女生,你应该提高警惕了!他不会喜欢你太久,因为他的心目中已经有了一个模范,就只不过等待着看谁最接近而已。

一个真正爱你的人,就会爱你的全部。不管你是高、矮、肥、瘦,单眼皮或双眼皮...甚至距离远近,都不会是分手的中心点。

一个人一旦有心要分手,它可以编出许许多多的理由与“苦衷”...

当分手成了一种气候,影响的不只是已分手的朋友,这分手的效应,还深深地影响了身边的情侣。有的听了会担心、会紧张自己的恋情会否面对同样的问题...在这种过分担心、过分紧张的情况下,往往有更多的情侣加入了这大气候。

不要轻易被这股气候所影响,相信自己的选择,相信你的另一半。不要让这股气候,影响了你们之间的感情。能够携手同过的,最后的果实一定让你回味无穷。

Thursday, 9 March 2006

爱情

爱情路上总是崎岖不平

有的人跌倒了
重新站了起来

有的人跌倒了
却也不愿再站起来

擦伤的伤口
疤痕永远留在
那是永恒的记忆

航在爱情洋上总是浮浮沉沉

有的人掉进海里
苦苦挣扎

有的人站在船边缘
岌岌可危

能够站在甲板上的人
又有多少?

能够过关的
都活了过来
挨不过难关的
如今都在舔着伤口

有时候
爱情就像走钢线
寻找刺激之余
也要懂得寻找平衡点

两个人一起走钢线
需要的不只是默契
还有携手同过的心
缺少了任何一样
两人都无法到达终点

走在钢线上
遇上了难题
要懂得沟通
一旦大吵起来
就会失去平衡
掉下去


站起来了吗?


站在甲板上了吗?


找到了平衡点吗?

Tuesday, 7 March 2006

人性

人之初,性本善...
人之初,性本恶...

曾经,两位学者为了这性本善、恶之分,
立出了许许多多的论点。
曾经,辩场上的辩论员,
也同样为了这两个句子,而抖个面红耳赤。

人性本无善恶之分...一切皆由心起...

就贪心,可以迷惑你、怂恿你、控制你、害了你!

有人可以为了钱而想尽办法干坏事
偷、骗、拐、抢等不正当手法。

钱很重要!
但是有必要去偷、骗、拐、抢吗?

为了一时的甜头
而毁了自己的前途
那样值得吗?

你贪图那一时的快钱
让自己陷入困境

你原本的大好前途
如今只有烂命一条

就因为这一点点的诱惑
令你永不超生
没有翻身的余地
也无法在该继续行业立足

曾经甚得老板器重的你
就因为贪
而前程一片黑暗

人之初,性本善吗?
还是
人之初,性本恶?

Monday, 6 March 2006

Trip

We were discussing for the trip this afternoon...

We, include Angie, Jas, Ting Fong, Sam and me...5 of us...planning to go somewhere else for our holiday.

Penang
Langkawi
Kuala Selangor
Genting Highland
Cameron Highland
Kuantan
Redang
Pangkor

I want to go Langkawi...I never been there before...although most of them saying that Langkawi is the boring place...not worth to go...but have they ever think of our situation?

I do wish I can go to Redang, but it's too expensive to me...

My dear pig is going to Sabah...he can climb the Mount Kinabalu... but I can't go...for the same reason...it's expensive...due to the financial problems...I can only choose those near and cheaper place...aiks...

hmm...nvm...I'm sure next year, I will have the chance to go China...that is the promise between piggie and doggie...

Friday, 3 March 2006

Finally

Finally I finish the documentary script d...Tired~~~

Later still got class to attend...then assignments again...

Hmm...the next script I'm going to write is about horror story...but I'm writing the synopsis in Chinese now...to get better feel...hehe~~ once I finish, must get someone to help me on traslation d...cos need a lot of desciption on the background for each scene...

I miss my Winnie the Pig... +_+