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Tuesday, 29 March 2005

又是大地震

8.5级大地震,东南亚有如惊弓之鸟。距离1226地震海啸不到100天,印尼苏门答腊西部于凌晨再一次发生8.5级地震。

去年尾遭地震海啸夺走数万条人命的亚齐,在地震发生以后,所有的居民都纷纷涌往高处逃命。目前已有300人死亡,100人受伤。所幸的是,目前仍未有海啸出现。也当然,不希望它得到访!

一连两次的天灾,是否在给人民一个警告?但它要警告我们什么呢?

海啸的发生是因为地震,那地震的发生又为何因?是因为板块与板块之间长时间的碰撞。若碰撞激烈,地震的级数也随之增加。当地震发生在海中央,地震的级数越大,所引起海啸的机率亦随之增加!

我并不甚什么地震专家,这一切也只是凭着我的记忆及了解所写出来的一些意见。我只是感到无奈,为什么我们人类能够做那么多伟大的创举,却敌不过那一霎那的天灾?我们虽然有过了一次的教训,得到了经验,却依然防不胜防?再繁华、再进步的国家,只需要一个防不及的天灾,也可以将整个国家摧毁!

这一次的地震,依然多走了300条人命!虽然比上一次的数百万人少了许多倍,但依然有人承受着失去亲人的悲痛。

曾经看过一篇文章,说明了如果人类依然故我,不推动并支持环保的工作,到了2100年,气温增加,海平面会增高几十公尺,足以覆盖低地区域的国家及岛屿。但假如从今天起,全球人类一同齐心保护地球,到了2100年,地球海平面仍然会增高11公尺!因为太阳所放射出来的能量越来越多,也越来越高。因此,即使没有温室效应,地球的温度已让会增加。这一切的连锁反应,人类根本无从阻止!

还记得我曾写过有关上一次海啸灾难的文章, 里头提及一部美国电影《明天过后》(The Day After Tomorrow )。既然已经有拍摄出这一类型的灾难电影,人们除了欣赏到好莱屋(Hollywood)高技术的拍摄之外,有有否深一层的去思考,现在地球的情况?什么温室效应,冰山融化,海平线增高等等。这都是我们人类所无法控制并制止的情况吗?

其时,人们无法控制并制止一切的发生!

Friday, 25 March 2005

Girls VS Guys

When a GIRL is quiet,Millions of things are running in her mind.

When a GIRL is not arguing,She is thinking deeply.

When a GIRL looks at u with eyes full of questions,She is wondering how long you will be around.

When a GIRL answers "i'm fine" after a few seconds,She is not at all fine.

When a GIRL stares at you,She is wondering why you are lying.

When a GIRL lays on your chest,She is wishing for you to be hers forever.

When a GIRL calls you everyday,She is seeking for your attention.

When a GIRL wants to see you everyday,She wants to be pampered.

When a GIRL sms's u everyday,She wants you to reply at least once.

When a GIRL says I love you,She means it.

When a GIRL says that she can't live without you,She has made up her mind that you are her future.

When a GIRL says "i miss you",No one in this world can miss you more than that

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When a GUY is quiet,no $$$ in the pocket.....

When a GUY is not arguing,girl is really terrible

When a GUY looks at u with eyes full of questions,he's hiding something behind u

When a GUY answers "i'm fine" after a few seconds,really fine ma.......

When a GUY stares at you,he imaginaned what will happen later.....

When a GUY lays on your chest,later in the bed...

When a GUY calls you everyday,telekom so cheap

When a GUY wants to see you everyday,this guy is crazy

When a GUY sms's u everyday,he is boring

When a GUY says I love you,MAYB...it's true

When a GUY says that he can't live without you,he have long time not having sex with u

When a GUY says "i miss you",miss u today, bye bye tomorrow

Wednesday, 23 March 2005

MAN
男人被问题和压力占据,而躲入洞穴思考时,女人不用将他视为个人问题,只要知道此时不适合谈话,等他解决问题后,他自然会走出洞穴…此为《男人洞穴心理》


《男人洞穴心理》
男人就是这样的一种“动物”,每当遇到任何问题、压力、障碍时,尽可能都会自己解决。一旦无法解决,便是逃避!所谓的洞穴,其实就是他的避难所。

然而,身为女生的我们,永远无法进入他的“洞穴”,了解他的情况!在男女不平等的社会里,男生永远人为女生是无法替他们分忧并协助他们解决所谓“男生”的问题。

因此,才会导致女生不需在当他遇到烦恼时,伸出援手。只有静静的,让男生冷静下来,头脑清醒了,自然就会想到解决方案。

任何事情总有两面。这么样的心理,有好也有坏。尽管在刚强,男生仍然需要安慰,需要肩膀依靠。只是,不懂得如何抒发感情的男生,是不会在女生面前哭。更不会主动向女生要求安慰或依靠。对他们而言,这是一种懦弱的行为。哭,代表他们无法承担重任,无法扛起大男人应当照顾女生的重任。因此,才会有这么多男人到酒吧卖醉。

换言之,“酒吧”等于男人的“洞穴”。

注:以上论点,纯属个人意见,无意“一竹竿打沉所有男人”。

下期预告:
WOMAN
说话是女人对压力的自然反应。男人只要表现出关心和了解,让她感受到爱,而不用针对她的问题提出解答,只要聆听就可以帮助到她们了。

Monday, 21 March 2005

It's so hot...

These few weeks are so hot until I cannot tahan, and switch on my air cond in my room....For those who know I had move to Taman Taynton, and I'm staying upstairs. My room is the hottest place in the whole house, and today, it's nearly 36 degree!!!

My mood is so depress because of this hot weather....

Saturday, 19 March 2005

Home Schooling VS Mainstream Schooling

Since when it comes out the home schooling system ya? does it have in Msia? or just other country?

Next Tuesday, our ILC class going to have a debate on this topic..everyone will have a chance to gif their opinion on this topic...and we are going to divide into 2 groups...

hmm...which i should support? now still cracking my head to search more info about the home schooling...wanna know more about it advantages and disadvantages...

Which will you choose if there is a chance for you, back to kindergarten? Home schooling which you didn't need to go to school at all, and your parents will teach you all the subjects...or you will choose those normal mainstream schooling?

What do you think?

Friday, 18 March 2005

current issue..

This is one of my assignment...comment on current issue...any grammar error, spelling error, not understand the meaning...feel free to write to me... ;p

“The secondary school students were having a tougher time coping with the learning of Mathematics and Science in English than the primary school pupils.” ~ The Star

Surprisingly that nowadays, the secondary school students were having problem in learning Mathematics and Sciences in English. All the secondary schools students and primary schools pupils are advice to watch more TV programmes such as educational programmes or cartoons to understand and speak better English.

Is it works and is it applicable? While they are watching those English programmes, it might not really learn to understand and speak better English, because it had actually provided the Malay subtitle. The students may catch the meaning through reading the subtitles but not listening to the conversation. Thus, this will only improve their Bahasa Melayu, not English.

Besides that, it is the same happen in cinema. Frankly, most of the students prefer to watch western movie than Cantonese movie. Especially to the Chinese educated students. However, they are too rely more on the Chinese subtitles which had been provided. They are just “reading” the movie, not “watching”. What a waste to “watch” movie in cinema.

Thus, I would like to stress on some useful suggestion that can improve students’ English Language. First of all, students should read more English book such as science fictions, love stories, detectives, or even comics will do. It is very sure that the library must have tons of English books in it. You could just spend some time on reading these books to improve their vocabulary and learning on the style of the writing from author.

Secondly, you must be trained to write English journal once a week. You might found that writing is the worst thing to do. Yet, you shouldn’t afraid of it because that is the only chance for you to write freely, without worry the grammatical error or spelling error and even the sentence structure. This is a method of improving your skill on express yourselves in English. At least, you must start first step, to have free writing at first. After a few times, then only write the journal in a proper way which has a thesis statement and supporting point in each paragraph.

Furthermore, listen to radio is a best way to understand and speak better English. I would like to recommend Light & Easy (FM 105.7) to everyone because it is the only station which broadcast a lot of 60’s, 70’s and 80’s song. These are the song which you can hear clearly the lyrics and able to understand the meaning of the song. Moreover, the deejay speak very clear English that you can get the meaning with no confuse. For the first time to listen English radio station, you might not get use to it, even can’t understand what the deejay is talking about. Even the advertisement on the radio is too fast that you might not get the meaning. However, once the ads and songs keep repeating to you, slowly you will get it.

Finally, there is another way to learn English, which you can do newspaper cutting. Every day in the Sin Chew Daily, there is a section which teaches us English sentence or phrase. It provides very detail information that after you read it, you will understand how to use the phrase and create a sentence. Besides that, The Star also has a section in teaching English at Star Two. Some times the readers will write to the editor, point out that they found out some English grammar or spelling error in the public or in the newspaper itself. They point out the error and provide the correct information to readers. You can cut out all these English teaching material, stick it on a blank book, and have revision everyday. This may help you improve your English too.

Last but not least, you should try your best to speak English in class with your teachers or your friends. The more you speak, the more error you will find out, the more you will learn from it. We are not born talent, thus we have to work out for it.

English as a universal language in the world, it is advisable to master this foreign language, or I should say, it is a must, to master this language. It is widely use in every firm and it is one of the powerful languages all over the world.

No more waiting, brush up your English NOW!!!

Wednesday, 16 March 2005

Happy Birthday To Me…

This is the 23rd birthday I had in my life…I’m now 23 years old…how do I feel?

I’m now still studying, haven’t started to earn money yet in this age, whereas most of my friends who same age with me already graduate from Uni/College. They worked for almost 1 year plus.

I’m still single and available to everyone, but there is a guy in my mind, in deep of my heart. No one can replace him! He is very important to me because he taught me a lot of stuffs that I didn’t know. He taught me a lot in using the computer software, besides that, he gives me advice before I make a decision.

I’m glad that in this age, I have my own car to drive although it’s still not under my name. It gives me more convenient, going to uni, going to cw, going out in a group to do the project…

I’m very happy that I still manage to learn and practice that competition style wushu. I’m now trying my best to improve myself in those jumping skills. It’s hard but I would like to challenge myself in it. CHEERS ~~

My whole family just moves to Taman Taynton. I’m so happy that I have my own bedroom with my own PC and personal telephone. My bedroom is quite big compare with my sister’s. It’s her choice because she doesn’t want to climb up and down. Anyway, both of us satisfied with our own decision.


What is my future plan? Or what is my wish for this year?

~ I must graduate by end of this year or latest by April ’06.

~ I promise to myself that I must graduate with CGPA 3.5.

~ I want to have my own business which I’m learning to do now.

~ I want to be married after 5 years, which I am 28 years old then.

~ I wish to have 2 children in future.

(Add in next time if I still have any new idea come in...hehehe...)

Tuesday, 15 March 2005


My very first prom night in UCSI...Midnight Masquerade...but didn't really choose a nice dress for that night...the gal beside me is Hoong Tze...a very nice gal ya...she's the MC that night... Posted by Hello

Monday, 7 March 2005


Seems like very seriou huh...haha...anyway..thanks to Ivan, who sent me all these photos... Posted by Hello

Sunday, 6 March 2005


Me and Huai Ying doing Dui Lian in the WID 05 performance... Posted by Hello