葛妮の语

快乐哲学...习惯就好...开心就好...

Thursday, 22 November 2007

《Mikaela》

恭喜小妮子的的姐姐~~~

Mikaela

Feminine form of Mikael - God like
Swedish Name

Feminine of Michael - gift from God
Latin Name

"Feminine of Michael, meaning gift from God"
English Name

Tuesday, 20 November 2007

《熊抱》



同样是看到我相公的部落,看到这个短片...嗯...她说他的第一个熊抱的对象是林耀辉(马来西亚武术队)...

对我而言,我的熊抱是在2001年年尾的《唯新微心新之旅》...我们都互相给了每一位筹委与工委一个熊抱...毕业后,有的出国深造、有的选择进入社会大学、有的则留在本地继续修读学士文凭。每一次的聚会,我们都习惯性的给对方一个狠狠的熊抱...恰恰表达了我们想念对方的激动心情...

我最喜欢顺兴的熊抱,真得很窝心,姐弟心连心吧~~~我记得有一次我们在循中碰面,我们都不理会旁人(他的童军团)的眼光,就在校园里拥抱...还深怕被抓去记大过...呵呵~~~独中里,男女授受不亲...不过,我们都是毕业已久的校友了啦!

一个拥抱,可以表达很多含义...当你碰到一个很久不见的朋友或是亲人,在你不懂得如何开口的情况下,不妨先来个熊抱作为开场白...

熊抱可以化解一些尴尬的场面...
熊抱可以安抚伤心的人...
熊抱可以表达你的思念...
熊抱可以让家人感觉你的爱...(虽然抱着的时候,妈妈会问,是不是闯了什么祸?)
熊抱可以让伴侣有安全感...
熊抱可以很真实地反映我们的真诚...

来吧!谁要免费熊抱?

《部落格back up》

我从阿冯那里看到这么一篇--〉備份你的blog ...

可以到这里https://www.blogbackuponline.com/techrigy/ 来backup你的部落了~~~

Monday, 19 November 2007

《评估试考不好,小六女生自杀》

评估试考不好,小六女生自杀

只不过是小六的评估考试而已...需要这么闹自杀吗?

打从上个星期四开始,就连续不断看到报章大篇幅地报导小六评估考试的新闻。

希山:識字率達95.8%.UPSR總及格率提高小六評估試傳佳話.雙胞胎雙雙考7A甲大部份華小有進步檳華小個人成績進步紅土坎49學生獲7A2000年從居鑾遷至新山.文化華小4人獲7A國淡小全A人數增長.華小全A成績下滑7%彭華小表現退步.7A學生減少14.1%全科A華小生比率跌.教總否認華小水平下滑柔英文科E級達9.55%.局長:英文教數理恐影響成績1324學生英語考科學 .9萬人雙語應考•淡小考生最多登華小全A生減至34人檳華小成績遜色甲州340學生考獲7A隆824華小生考獲全A

这些只是星洲日报的报导而已...不能一一数尽...无论是成绩是好是坏,这样子的报导其实无疑让家长们根深蒂固的认为,孩子要考好成绩,就能被褒扬...考取一流的成绩,可以进到好的学校,可以扬威家乡...父母也比较有面子...

如果能够考获90分,已经是一个不错的成绩,然而有的父母不满足,会问孩子,剩的那10分呢?

我曾经遇过这么样的一个幼稚园老师,对于一个一年级的小女孩考获第39名,非常有意见...还对着女孩的父母碎碎念~~~

如果每个都考第一名,谁当最后一名?可是,很少父母去教育孩子说名次不等于一切!

现在的学生都在比,比看谁的“苹果”比较多...所以,SPM的考生,考取的科目越来越多,就为了打破纪录...(这个也好比哦~~@_@)

新闻里的小六女生其实成绩也不太差, 不过是4B, 2C,1D而已...都没有不及格啊!!更何况,这个只是小学的考试,何必去介意?现在考不好,那就下一次考试加油咯!

打从什么时候开始,我们的生命就被这些考试所牵引着?有事没事就拿性命当赌注?已经身为父母的,还要把孩子的时间填得满满的吗?什么补习、心算、舞蹈、钢琴、唱歌、绘画等等的活动...父母们需要这么样来教孩子吗?

以前只听说日本的学生压力大,才会有自杀事件的发生。现在马来西亚小六的女生而已啊!!是否有人意识到现在的家庭教育有问题?

Friday, 16 November 2007

《七公主仙女的介绍》

抱歉!是我老了~~~今天早上终于有人更正我了~~哈哈~~不是公主...而是...

七仙女!!!!!



提到公主仙女,就会想到中学时期的日子。每每当一群好朋友在一起的时候,尤其是已经有固定的一群,往往都会被别人封上一个称号。

3剑客、4个女生、4千金、XX几人组、5粒橙[ 这个也是有一段小故事的~~不过今天不提... ]、7小福、7兄弟、7姐妹等等~~~(可惜当时还没有F4的出现...哈哈~~~)

当然就少不了我们这个7公主仙女...

好吧!请各位乘客走进我的时光机,系好安全带,时光机准备启航~~~

#####1999####

话说我们6个女生其实从初一就认识对方,除了国宝是转校生...所以,我们彼此都知道对方的存在

基于我们那一届上到高中的时候,就只有2班理科班,1班文商班,人数大概只有150人。而我原本是在理(二)班。可是却不知道为什么,我们几个都蛮好谈的~~~也许当时候我们都是学长的关系;有或许我们都是理科生,所以频率一致;再或许我们都是女生~~~

噢...差点忘了,7公主仙女有一个是男的...(稍后就会知道怎么一回事了~~~)

#####2000####

来到高中的最后一年,我决定转到理(一)班去...结果就和其他5为公主成了同班同学。我们6人总是形影不离...一起去食堂、一起逛书局、一起探望老麦还有老肯、一起逛星马、一起到垃圾巷吃云吞面还有对面巷的板面...太多了~~~

还有还有...

一起玩闹、一起到图书馆埋头苦干、一起在电脑室学写程序还有网页制作...直到毕业后,毕业晚宴闹天亮的日子、毕业旅行...

我们在一起有太多地回忆了~~~~

原本就只有我们6个人,可是,总是觉得怪怪的...要想一个组合的名字很难配...结果,当时候与我们蛮熟系的伟铭,就被我们拉过来一起当公主了~~~~7公主仙女总比6公主仙女来的亲切好听~~~

还有另一个把伟铭来过来的原因是,他的唠叨性格及一点点地女人性格,让我们觉得他适合当公主仙女多于王子...

结果这个公主仙女现在身在日本,和一群小朋友玩得不亦乐乎,完全发挥了他的“母”爱~~~嘻嘻!!!

7公主仙女目前的情况就如下:

1个在日本了咯~~~
艳姗在台湾工作了咯~~~
国宝在新加坡修读博士课程了咯~~~
敏颖、佩仪、幼莲还有我就在马来西亚工作了咯~~~

什么时候,我们7个还有机会共聚一堂啊??

Thursday, 15 November 2007

《借口!借口?》

昨天其实已经看到泪诗雳辟喇屎狗得那一篇文章她和他,看完了整篇,却没有弄懂他想表达些什么...直到今天上午,海豚MSN我的时候,我才去泡见康的部落...里头的这一篇"Who Am I???",让我混淆...一看文章末,发现作者是我们7公主之一的成员,才知道有这么一回事。

公主说他被老板炒了...她恢复了单身、年轻又漂亮的城市女性~~~

我们都不了解实际情况,只是知道公主的爱与支持,原来成了老板的负担。也因此公主被老板辞退了。

这个,也许不是一个很好的理由,也许只是一个借口,又或许事实真有此事。我们都不能妄下定论,只是觉得,一个7年的感情,就这样结束,似乎太儿戏。


##### 我的话 #####


不是针对上述的事情,只是想要表达我的想法而已,他们的故事,让我看到两个人相处的一些小事~~~

两个人在一起,就要学会承担一切。无论是现在或是未来,都会有许多的负担与压力要去面对。而不是为了减少负担,而选择放弃。

两个陌生人走在一起,从不认识到互相了解,都需要时间~~~感情也不是马上变出来,而是慢慢酝酿而成的,就像酒一样,越久越香醇...

负担与压力其实都是磨练,没有了他们,也许就不懂得什么叫珍惜~~~两个人能够携手一起面对问题、一起解决难题,那种共患难的感情,才叫人难忘。

Wednesday, 14 November 2007

《扎根50载文化大汇演之慰劳宴》


一个盛大的文化大汇演的演出以后,就是这个慰劳宴,让所有的表演员再次相聚一堂...这一次的聚会以后,不知道什么时候还会同台演出。

可是当晚出席慰劳宴的演员们似乎都没有到齐,就连我们霍元甲武术学院的学生也缺了一大半。















集合了全马各地的文化工作者,上台领取表扬状...





不要问我关于什么政党不政党的问题,也不要质问我为什么“帮”马华表演...我只想重申,我只是一个喜欢中华武术文化的学员,参与文化大汇演只是一个能够让我们宣传文化的管道之一...没有所谓的“帮”什么政党不政党的~~~

我不是爱国,我只是爱文化~~~

《手札1》



灰天细雨
烦闷郁结顿时涌心头

稀疏孤寂
四海飘零无容身之地

Friday, 9 November 2007

《小心Email》

想想我也还真大胆~~~我正在测试这种所谓的骗局~~~昨天收到一封Email,内容如下:

Microsoft Award Department®Claims Office
20 Craven Park,
Harlesden London NW10
,United Kingdom.
Ref: BTD/610/07
Batch: 742701AE


WINNING NOTIFICATION
This is to inform you that your email has won a consultation prize of
the Microsoft Corporation EMAIL DRAW held 8th November 2007. Your email
has won you 500,000.00 Great British Pounds. To claim your prize,
please contact your fiduciary agent Dr.Garry Stover with your Batch:
742701AE and Ref: BTD/610/07 and contact him via email immediately
within 24hrs with the following details below.


1. Full name................
2. Country..................
3. Contact Address..........
4. Telephone Number.........
5. Fax Number...............
6. Marital Status...........
7. Occupation........


your advise to send your personel information or data to him to enable
him start with the claims procedure.

contact your fiduciary agent

Dr.Garry Stover with your Batch: 742701AE and
Ref: BTD/610/07 and contact him via email immediately within 24hrs from now.

Dr.Garry Stover
Microsoft Award Department/Claims Office
Head Winning Claims Dept.
Email: claimsagent_garrystoveruk@yahoo.co.uk

我回了信给上述的email add。

#####

结果,不到12个小时,我收到了第二封信,内容如下:

MICROSOFT AWARD DEPARTMENT
Microsoft Corporation
1 Microsoft Way
Redmond, WA 98052

ATTN: Lucky Winner,

Ref: BTD/968/07
Batch: 409978E

AWARD DELIVERY PROCEDURE

We have finally process your winning cheque and have handed it over to our affiliate courier company(CITY LINK COURIER DELIVERY COMPANY) for them to deliver your winning cheque to you at your address along with your microsoft winning certificate.

Please contact the city link courier home delivery company immediately through email address or Telephone number. inorder for the courier company to deliver your winning check to you personally. You are required to provide the courier company with the following information

Name....
Address....
Country......
Telphone Number...
ID card Number.....
Delivery Cap Number: 23456

Below are the contact information of the Courier Company:
COURIER CONTACT INFORMATION
CITY LINK COURIER DELIVERY COMPANY
Mr Smith Bush (Head Dispatch Officer)
Phone Number: +44-704-571-3531
Fax Number: +44-870-974-1952
Email: scitycourier@yahoo.co.uk

**ATTENTION**
1. Incase of currency exchange. pls visit these websites (www.xe.com).

Congratulations once again from the entire staff of the Microsoft Award Team.

Dr Gary Stover
MICROSOFT AWARD DEPARTMENT.
United Kingdom
Tel: +44-704-574-8196

You are advice to keep your Reference Number and your Batch Number out of Public and also yourNeigbourhood. Inorder, to avoid double claim of your prize award.Due to past experience from


我也回了这封邮件。

#####

现在,我等着他们的第三封信,看他们如何套我们入骗局...我相信一定会有叫你汇钱给他们的CITYLINK,以方便他们把支票寄给你等等之类的骗话的啦~~~

一起等我的第三封信吧!

091107
11:49pm

*********



CITY LINK® COURIER DELIVERY COMPANY

511 Garretts Green La
Birmingham,West Midlands,
B18 6DA,England
Our Ref#:-SLC/CPEL/9876
CITY LINK® COURIER EXPRESS DELIVERY OPTIONS AND CHARGES WITH INSURANCE

Attn:-Thong Chuei Theng,

Welcome to City Link Courier Home Delivery Company an affiliated with the Microsoft Award Department.This courier company has been notified by the Microsoft Award Department on the amount of Five Hundred Thousand Great British Pounds Sterling (£500,000.00GBP) won by you in their sweepstakes award promotion. This means that, you have been officially cleared for the delivery of your winning cheque to you at your address.

The original copy of your winning certificate, your winning cheque and the covering document (Money Laundering protection and Letter of Affidavit for Claims) from the United Kingdom stating that the money was obtained through the Microsoft Award Sweepstakes Promotion and to be deliver to you in your country as soon as you meet with our delivery charges. (Parcel Delivery Cap# 23456)

DISCRIPTION OF PARCEL READY FOR DISPATCH

Weight of Winning Certificate --------- 0.12g
Weight of Bank Cheque ------------ 0.6g
Total weight of Parcel ---------- 0.18g
Total Net weight of Parcel --- 0.20g
Colour of Parcel Brown --- Brown
Parcel Packaging Bonded

Microsoft Winning parcel containing the sum of £500,000.00GBP in a certified Cheque/Microsoft Winning Certificate.

Note:-That your winning prize is protected with a hardcover insurance policy by PET INSURANCE COMPANY, which make it impossible to deduct any amount from the money before it has been remitted to you. This means that, the above charges cannot be deducted from the winning prize. Hence, Our courier delivery charges must be paid by you before your winning parcel will be delieverd to you.

"We do not operate on (C.O.D) that is, Cash On Delivery. Our Service render on Payment Before Delivery (P.B.D)" After, payment is received from you. immediately, your winning cheque will be deliver to you at your door-step.

You can now begin the final step of the claims process, With regards to this below are the mandatory delivery charges open to you. Please choose the most convenient of the three option and make the payment to enable us deliver your parcel to you.

CITY LINK® COURIER SERVICES DELIVERY CHARGES:-

COURIER EXPRESS DELIVERY (24 HOURS DELIVERY)
Mailing $350 USD
Insurance $250 USD
Vat (5%) $200 USD
TOTAL $800 USD


COURIER REGULAR (1-2 DAYS DELIVERY)
Mailing $300 USD
Insurance $200 USD
Vat (5%) $150 USD
TOTAL $650 USD

COURIER REGULAR LATE(2-4 DAYS DELIVERY)
Mailing $200 USD
Insurance $150 USD
Vat (5%) $100 USD
TOTAL $450 USD

The charges are a little high because of the insurance cover we have undertaken incase of loss,damage or theft of your highly sensitive document.We assume all responsibilities incase of any eventualities.

PAYMENT INSTRUCTIONS
You are required to make the above payment for any options of our courier delivery charges choosen by you via Western Unoin Money Transfer through the Name and Address of our Account Officer below so as to speed up the process of winning prize delivering to your destinated address given by you.



ACCOUNT OFFICER NAME AND ADDRESS:-
Name:- Marrisa Tonsk
Address:- 511 Garretts Green La Birmingha, England
Country:- United Kingdom

You are to notify this office a copy of the transfer slip , send the following information via email as they appear on the western union transfer slip:-

INFORMATION NEEDED FROM YOU:-
1. Sender's First/Last Name:-
2. Sender's Residence Address:-
3. Money Transfer Control Number(MTCN):-
4. Amount Sent:-

Please respond to this email by making a selection from the options above. Also, attach a scanned copy of either your driver's licence or any other legally identifying document by the lucky winner.Be reminded that, the deadline of winning prize claiming is exactly one week after the receipt of this email. After this period, your prize will be deemed to have been forfeited by you and will be reused in the drawings of the next edition of the lottery

Once again, Congratulations !!!

Yours Faithfully,

Mr. Smith Bush (Head Dispatch Officer)
CITY LINK® COURIER DELIVERY COMPANY
Telephone Number: +44 704 571 3531
Fax Number: +44 870 974 1952
Email: scitycourier@yahoo.co.uk
Copyright® 2007 City Link Courier All rights reserved

《广告 - 信用卡》

今早上听到这么一则广告

前面不是很记得了,场景是在某油站
......
甲、乙两女在油站看见帅男孩

甲女:他没有信用卡吗?为什么他还要到柜台付钱添油?
乙女:也许他还没满21岁。
甲女:我也是还没满21岁啊,可是我可以申请者张PXXX Cash Card (好像是..><),可以方便我添油、购物、吃快餐....
乙女:那我也要申请一张了...

大概整个广告是要推销这张万用的信用卡。可是让我质疑的是为什么信用卡的对象越来越年轻化?未满21也可以申请,也就是说不需要有薪水达RM1,500以上就可以拿到这张卡喽?

难怪卡奴这么多...真要多写这些信用卡的优惠层出不穷。有自制能力的人就算那上好几张卡,也懂得如何盘算。可是一旦卡在年轻人的手上,还在念书的小朋友,刷了卡以后,谁才是付账的人啊?还不是父母?

走到大街上,随手抓几个人来问,身上随时有好几张卡...而且一般上都是因为可以免付年费,又没有规定每个月必须刷上一定的次数而申请得来...结果,到处都看到信用卡的摊位在招揽顾客申请信用卡...就连原本让我以为很高级的CxxxxxxK的信用卡,也必须降下自己曾经崇高的地位。

不是吗?

以前这件C公司的信用卡,要申请的程序多不在话下,连呈上的资料也很详细...能够拿得到这件公司的信用卡,其实就代表着这个人的薪水有一定的程度高...当时候我还记得最普通的只是一张蓝卡,要拿到C公司的黑卡更是不简单...

可是现在?

随随便便只要薪水达RM1,500,有3个月的payslips,再附上身份证阴影本,就可以申请了。效率好的话,一个星期后,就有人会播电给你来核对你的资料。接着,再一个星期,卡就寄到府上了。

C公司原来的崇高地位,变得普通了...

卡奴的人数继续直线上升...结果,富者越富,贫者越贫...恶性循环持续....